🔗🌟 Kink, Fetish & What a Visit to a Dominatrix Can Teach You About Yourself
What comes to mind when you think “Dominatrix”? Latex? Whips? A cold stare and a cruel smile?
In this episode of DEEP & DIRTY, Lisa sits down with Paris-based Dominatrix, writer, filmmaker, and community builder Inanna Justice to sweep the stereotypes off the dungeon floor — and explore what power play, kink, and FemDom are really about. Spoiler: it’s not all punishment and pain. Sometimes it’s laughter, catharsis, creativity… and yes, boots.
The Many Faces of FemDom
Inanna opens up about how FemDom isn’t about being “female” or conforming to a certain look — it’s about intention, energy, and how power is consciously exchanged.
She challenges the idea that dominance needs to look a certain way. “You can be soft and terrifying,” she says. “You can be nurturing and still have someone lick your boots.” It’s not a role to perform but a dynamic to embody — one that allows people to feel held, seen, and often deeply relieved.
The Curious Healing of Kink
Far from being dark and damaging, Inanna describes kink as a place where people can explore hidden parts of themselves — especially when shame, control, or expectations have left little room for play.
Lisa and Inanna dive into how kink allows for catharsis, ritual, and self-discovery. They talk about “mild” versus “wild” fetishes, the joy of exploring rubber, boots, or being on all fours, and why fantasy doesn’t need to be pathologized.
“It’s not broken,” Inanna says. “It’s desire.”
From the Dungeon to the Stage
Inanna’s work isn’t limited to private sessions. She’s a powerhouse creator — from producing erotic films screened at international festivals to developing the virtual photo exhibition Butt-ler, where she and Madame Lule reign over their tuxedoed “butt-lers.”
She also co-founded Kinky Saloon France, a nonprofit offering inclusive BDSM parties and educational workshops. And her latest big project? France FemDom, a three-day event that brings together Dominatrices from all over the world for play, learning, and connection.
For Inanna, it’s all part of a bigger mission: making kink visible, joyful, and accessible — especially outside of porn and pain narratives.
The Power of Being Seen
One of the most powerful parts of this conversation is how honest, funny, and radically human it is. Inanna isn’t preaching kink as a fix-all — but as a rich playground for pleasure and authenticity.
She believes everyone should see a Dominatrix once in their life. “Not because I want to convert everyone,” she says, “but because being witnessed, having your desire named and honored — that can be life-changing.”
Whether you’re a seasoned player or just kink-curious, this episode is a warm, whip-smart guide to power, permission, and the pleasure of being exactly who you are.
About Inanna Justice
Inanna Justice is an American Dominatrix living in Paris. She is the co-founder and president of the nonprofit Kinky Saloon France and the creator of France FemDom, a three-day event dedicated to FemDom culture.
She is also the author of The Heart of the Dominatrix, a beautiful collection of interviews and portraits of 21 Dommes from around the world, and co-creator of the artful, cheeky photo exhibition Butt-ler. Her erotic films have been screened at festivals around the world, and her work spans education, activism, creativity, and deep sensuality.
You can find her at:
🌐 Client sessions & more: InannaJustice.com
📚 Book: HeartoftheDominatrix.com
🎭 Virtual gallery: Butt-ler.com
🎪 Upcoming event: FranceFemDom.com
🎲 Non-profit & events: KinkySaloonFrance.com
📷 Instagram: @justiceroom_paris
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